Each day some of the children I worked with would come in hungry, dirty, and in the winter, very cold. I did everything that I could to support these families, as a young adult, I think that I had the plan that I could help all of them, unfortunately that was not always the case. To help those that I could I contacted local charities to provide warm clothes, I worked with a local food pantry to help provide food, and during the day I gave those kids the most love, support, and full tummies that I could.
While I myself did not experience many stressors growing up, these children were experiencing doubly. Some of those kids are still around in the community, and I actually happened upon a mother of one of them on Facebook just not that long ago. Her child, Gavin, is a happy, healthy 11 year old now, doing great in school, and is excelling in sports. When I talked to this mother, she told me that those first couple of years at the Housing Authority were ones that she credited to Gavin being so successful now. I would never say that I was the only reason that her child is doing great, he has hard working parents and a huge support system, I was just a small part of his early development. There are 9 other children from that class that I don't know where they ended up or how they are doing.
Poverty and hunger are two stressors on child development that are seen all over the world. In an article from the Mirror, England's poverty and hungry children are noted. "In our poll, more than 85% of teachers quizzed in the survey said there has been an increase in the number of pupils turning up to school in the past two years without having eaten breakfast" (Parry, 2013). Some groups like the Magic Breakfast charity have worked hard at raising funds to provide meals to children who need to eat. I think that many areas of the world need help in this area, including here at home in the United States.
As I move forward in my career I will always think about those children that I worked with, and how I can continue to help children like them. They will always have a place in my heart, and will always make me try a little harder for the children that really need it!
Reference
Parry, T. (2013). Retrieved from http://www.mirror.co.uk/news/uk-news/britains-hungry-children-desperate-schoolchildren-2325369#ixzz2s7qckqlk
Thanks for your post, Machaela. Wow. I think you really made a difference for those kids. That really must feel great. I couldn't help but think as I was reading, though, that you were a young woman when you were doing this work. You probably were gaining experience in the field and, in time, moved on to a job that was less draining and paid more. Perhaps not. Maybe I am making too many assumptions. But that is a common pattern. It is so unfortunate that in our culture there is so little support to keep programs like the one you worked with going strong. Women (and men) doing the work that you are and were doing back then have the most important job in this country, in the world! Yet, we/they/you are compensated so poorly and the work is seen as less important respectable from the work of say a doctor or lawyer. It is really sad. Most childcare workers burn out working with the kids who need them the most. There is just no even exchange of energy and that makes even the most amazing, well-intentioned and capable childcare workers burn out. Do you feel like that was your story at all? Or was you experience different? I would love to hear a bit more.
ReplyDeleteThank you for you post. I am continually impressed with your thoughts and ideas and wish I could get together and talk shop some time! Or just watch you work... I have a feeling I would learn a lot from you!
Lauren,
DeleteYou are absolutely correct on everything. I loved working for the Housing Authority, but it was very long days and very little money. Unfortunately, I ended up moving on because the program couldn't continue on because of lack of funding. It was a sad day when we closed the doors, and sent the children off to either home or another center. I think that's part of why I still think about those children so much, because many of them didn't/couldn't continue to be in early childhood. It was definitely a unique experience.
Hi Machaela, thank you for sharing your experience with working with children who experienced hunger. You not only provided a caring and loving environment, but you went above and beyond as to find the appropriate resources they needed. Children endure many different stressors, but it is hard knowing that children in our communities experience hunger, especially if it is something that we have never experienced ourselves. Some children's stressors may last their life time, but for some children who get the support they need or who are more resilient will be luckier. You need to know that the support you gave those 10 babies helped to alleviate some the stress that they endured while they were in your care. The mother who you spoke to validated that!!!
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Take care,
Stephanie
Hi Machaela, this was my third attempt to post??? For some reason it wasn't permitting to publish. I lost the first two comments, so I did my best to try and remember what I wrote!!!
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Stephanie
I always make sure to copy my responses because more often than not it just magically disappears when I try to post it. I can't tell you how many times I've tried to post a comment and it's just gone away--so frustrating!
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